Want to tie someone up, use a strap-on, or try anal? Go right ahead-the Amazon is nothing if not versatile. Plus, watching you be on top and in control can be hot as hell for them too. “Some people love the psychological factor of giving away all control,” says Katherin Winnick, sex coach and BDSM expert at Let’s Talk Sex. It also gives the usually-dominant partner the chance to chill and explore their submissive side. If you’re usually the receiving partner on the bottom, the Amazon position gives you the opportunity to explore what it feels like to be dominant, in control, and on top. “Nontraditional sexual positions take a bit of focus, so it’s a good way for women to get out of their heads, be playful, and tune into whether it feels good,” says ob-gyn and certified sex coach Renée Hilliard, MD. The Amazon can be a tricky, athletic position, but that’s what makes it so hot. And if deep penetration is on the sexploration menu for you, the Amazon position is it,” says E Michelle Thomas, ACS certified sexologist. “For the adventurous couple looking to really explore new things, the Amazon provides easier internal hot spot access and intense orgasms for both.